***This contest is now closed. Jason, Becky and David were our winners. Thanks to everyone for participating!***
In a previous post I mentioned the regular “bedtime blessing” routine in our family. Each night my husband would bless each of our children. The inspiration and instruction for doing this came from our dear friend and pastor, David Michael.
A Father’s Guide to Blessing His Children is a simple, practical, inexpensive and valuable tool that any dad can use. Here is David’s own description of why he created this resource:
This booklet and the accompanying blessing cards have grown out of a heart and vision to encourage men to bless their households. Most Christian men understand that they are called to be spiritual leaders in their home, but not all have a clear idea of what that means. Part of the reason for this is that many of us grew up with fathers who were not good examples of spiritual leadership. In fact, for the past several generations men were more likely to assume spiritually passive roles in the home, thus abdicating both the physical and spiritual care of their children and their wives. The more troubled families and marriages I see, the more I am motivated and inspired to encourage men toward life-giving spiritual leadership in the home.
These blessings are a simple yet powerful way for a father to express his prayer to God and to communicate a vision for the kind of men and women that he desires his children will one day be. In addition to his personal experience, David Michael shares a biblical understanding of blessing, and the fruits of blessing. There are also 24 scripture passages modified to fit the form of a blessing that a father may use with his own sons and daughters. These blessings are printed on 3″ x 5″ cards designed to fit in a shirt pocket that a father can carry with him to bless his sons and daughters before bedtime, or anytime.
Imagine the multiplied blessings that God might pour out on sons and daughters as these words from Psalm 112 flow over them from the heart of a loving father:
May you be a blessed man/woman who fears the Lord.
May you find great delight in the Lord’s commands.
May your children be mighty in the land. Even to the next generation, may you and your children be blessed.
May you find your wealth and your riches in God.
May you endure in righteousness forever.
Even in the darkness may the light dawn for you.
May you be a gracious, compassionate and righteous man/woman.
May you never be shaken. And may your name be remembered by the Lord forever. Amen!
This is a great resource for new fathers, veteran fathers, and grandfathers, as they seek to provide spiritual leadership for their families.
Do you know of a father who would benefit from this resource as he shepherds his children spiritually?
- PRIZE: A free printed copy of A Father’s Guide to Blessing His Children
- TO ENTER: Comment on this post and tell us one thing you admire about your father.
- CONTEST CLOSES: Wednesday, June 5 (Winners will be announced on Monday June 10.)
When I was a child, and even into my teens, I spent most of my free time outdoors. Whether playing active games with friends, exploring the neighborhood woods, or simply laying in the grass and trying to identify different shapes or figures in the clouds, we spent much of our summer disconnected from media or other electronics. Now that I am an adult, I have found I still benefit from enjoying the outdoors, as it evokes praise and admiration of God as I experience first-hand the wonders He has created. (more…)
In her seminar, “Involving Parents in the Classroom,” Connie Oman (Coordinator for Training and Classroom Support at Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis) offered some very practical ideas for encouraging parents to become more acquainted and involved in their child’s classroom experience. (more…)
The following are some very wise words from an article by Dr. Timothy Jones. (more…)
Today is Memorial Day in the USA. For many, it is simply a day off, the start of the summer vacation season, or a day to start on the long-awaited garden. But for me, this “holiday” took on a whole new meaning three years ago. Memorial Day 2010 was a time to say goodbye to our son before he left for Afghanistan where he would be serving with the Army for a year. (more…)
***This contest is now closed. Laurel was our winner. Thanks to everyone for participating!***
Read today’s post “Is This Book on Your Shelf?” and leave a comment on that post. We will draw one name to receive a free copy of Teach Them Diligently: How to Use the Scriptures in Child Training by Lou Priolo.
One of the books that we HIGHLY recommend at Children Desiring God is the very practical (and short—only 160 pages) Teach Them Diligently: How to Use the Scriptures in Child Training by Lou Priolo
Here is Pastor John MacArthur’s endorsement on the back cover of the book:
There is far more to teaching your children the Bible than merely telling them Bible stories. Unfortunately, many parents feel ill-equipped for the task, so they neglect this vital aspect of Christian parenting. In doing so, they forfeit many of the greatest blessings of parenthood. Here’s a valuable aid for parents seeking help…[This book] holds a wealth of practical and biblical advice for parents seeking to fulfill the mandate of Deuteronomy 6:6-7.
And here is the main premise in the book on which Priolo bases this advice,
The Scriptures provide all you need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3). They also provide all you need to bring up your children “in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” For thousands of years Christian parents have depended on the Bible as their source for child training. Down through the centuries men and women have believed that God would not ask them to do anything without giving them the resources to accomplish the task—especially a task as difficult as raising godly children. They believed it when Paul told them that the Scriptures were given “in order to make the man of God adequate, and to equip him fully for every good task” (2 Tim. 3:17, CCNT).
I would also add that this book is a must read for anyone who teaches children in a classroom setting, especially small groups leaders!
Our contest is now closed. Laurel was our winner. Thanks to everyone for participating!
Summer is almost upon us, and for many children and students that means more time to spend with friends. As any adult knows and has experienced, these friendships offer great potential as well as great dangers for our children and youth. Therefore, it is important for us to make sure that our children have a biblical view of friendship…
- a view that recognizes friendships are a wonderful gift from God and are also intended to help and encourage us to better know and trust in Jesus and walk in His truth.
- a view that warns us against friendships that may hinder our growth in godliness.
Consider the following verses from Proverbs that illustrate both the gift of friendship and the warnings against unwise friendships:
13:20—Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
17:17a—A friend loves at all times,
18:24—A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
22:24-25—Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man,
lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.
27:9—Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.
This summer might be a good time to help your children—especially older ones—examine their hearts and evaluate their friendships. You could start by reading together the verses listed above and also verses that describe God’s desire for how we are to relate to one another. For example,
Romans 12:10—Love one another
Romans 15:14—Instruct one another
2 Corinthians 13:11—Comfort one another
Galatians 5:13—Serve one another
Galatians 6:2—Bear one another’s burdens
Ephesians 4:32—Be kind to and forgive one another
Colossians 3:9—Do not lie to one another
1 Thessalonians 5:11—Encourage and build up one another
1 Thessalonians 5:15—Do good to one another
James 5:16—Pray for one another
Next, ask some of the following questions to initiate further discussion:
- Do you tend to choose your friends casually, or carefully? What kind of qualities do you look for in a friend? Are these the right guidelines to use?
- What kinds of conversations and activities characterize your friendships?
- Do you think that you are being influenced toward godliness by most of your friends?
- Do you thank God for the friends who have helped you to grow in godliness? In turn, are you encouraging these friends to grow in godliness? In what ways?
- Are there any things you see in your friendships that need change or improvement? What practical steps can you take this week to make progress in this area?
- Are any of your friends acting as “snares” in your life? Are you acting as a “snare” to any of your friends? How would Jesus want you to be transformed in this area of your life?
- Do you ask for your parents’ counsel in evaluating your friendships? Do you heed their advice?
- How might being a friend to a non-Christian help you to grow in your own trust and love for Jesus? How can your parents help guide you in how you might carefully do this?
As many of you know, Children Desiring God is located in Minneapolis Minnesota. This month, Minnesota will become the 12th state in the nation to officially recognize same-sex “marriage.” In one of his final sermons at Bethlehem Baptist Church, John Piper made the following observation,
…as I hand off my leadership role at Bethlehem to Jason Meyer, the world he and you will face is very different than when I came almost 33 years ago. It would have been unthinkable to suggest that anyone would seriously propose defining marriage as between two men or two women; and it would have been even more unthinkable that in a mere thirty years America would have lost its soul so profoundly that most American’s would approve of a definition of marriage that no society in the history of the world has ever embraced. (“Life Together at the End of the Age,” February 25, 2013)
How will we raise a generation of children in the midst of this increasingly hostile culture? Are we giving them the solid, foundational truths that they will need if they are to stand against the tide of worldly deceit—especially those truths that relate to a right understanding of manhood, womanhood, and marriage?
With these concerns in mind, CDG has developed a curriculum for youth titled, Rejoicing in God’s Good Design to deeply immerse our children into God’s absolute and unchanging truths, so that they might “shine as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15).
Here is a sampling from the preface,
We live in a confused world. A world in rebellion against the Creator. Rejecting the beauty of God for a lie.
It all started in the garden when Adam and Eve believed the serpent’s vicious lie of autonomy. With that act of rebellion, man and woman traded harmony with God and with each other for pain, suffering, brokenness, disharmony, and…confusion—confusion about the nature of God, confusion about God’s commands, and confusion about who they were.
Safety glass that has received a blow doesn’t usually just chip or crack…it shatters—into a million little pieces, beyond repair.
God, the all-wise, good Creator created a perfect world and a perfect design for man and woman. But into that world, a lie was believed, a rebellion established and God’s good design for man and woman wasn’t chipped or broken. It was…shattered…into a million little pieces, beyond repair, almost.
God, in His richness in mercy, sent His Son, Jesus Christ, the Repairer of the Broken, the Restorer of Relationships, the Destroyer of Confusion into this broken, confused world.
Because of Jesus Christ, and His work of redemption on the cross, man no longer needs to live in rebellion, disharmony, or confusion. We can become new creatures in Christ.
We, the people of God, can bring His message of hope to a confused, rebellious, dying world. Hope for rebellious hearts through the atonement of Jesus. Hope for disharmonious relationships through the grace of the Healer. And hope for confused minds through the clarity of the Truth.
Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
This is the message we have for the world regarding man and woman:
So God created man in his own image,
In the image of God he created him;
male and female he created them.
This is good news. This is a good design. This is worth rejoicing in!
And God blessed them. And God said to them,
“Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth
and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea
and over the birds of the heavens
and over every living thing that moves on the earth”…
The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden
to work it and keep it… Then the Lord said,
“It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a helper fit for him.”
–Genesis 1:28; 2:15, 18
And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good.
In a world that “turns things upside down” will you search the Scriptures, opening your heart before your wise, good Maker, and rejoice in His good design? Will you “set things right side up” through your living and obedient faith in Christ, pointing others to the perfect design for man and woman…and to the Creator? Will you stand against the flood of untruth, anger, rebellion, and suffering and live according to God’s will, command, and blessing?
Will you pray that as you see the truth unfold from the Word of God about being male and female, you will see the goodness of God in His wise and perfect plan and REJOICE IN GOD’S GOOD DESIGN!