Archive - April, 2016

Deep Talks for Strong Faith

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Recently I have been reading through a newly released book for Christian parents by Natasha Crain titled, “Keeping Your Kid’s on God’s Side–40 Conversations to Help Them Build a Lasting Faith.” It’s not often you find a book on Christian apologetics written specifically with kids in mind, so this book has me intrigued. I hope to post a thorough review in the near future. At the end of the book, she gives “10 Tips for Having Deeper Faith Conversations with Your Kids.” I found these to wise and practical—something every parent can be working on. Here are the 10 tips, along with a few quotes:

  1. Commit to continually deepening your understanding of Christianity.
  1. Make spiritual space in your home.
  2. …[a]dedicated time for your family to engage together in growing your understanding of and relationship to God.
  1. Study the Bible with your kids. Really.
    Simply reading the Bible helps kids learn key stories and events. But studying the Bible helps them learn what it all means and introduces them to the importance of interpretation.
  1. Proactively and regularly ask your kids what questions they have.
    …pull your kids’ questions to the forefront of conversation. You don’t need to have all the answers, but you do need to provide the forum.
  1. Ask your kids the tough questions they don’t ask of you.
    …we can’t just react to the questions they happen to have. We need to proactively put all the questions we know are important…right in front of them.
  1. If your kids are struggling with faith, become a detective.
    …find out (1) what exactly they mean when they say what they say, and (2) why they’ve come to that conclusion.
  1. Emphasize critical thinking skills.
     …teaching them how to objectively evaluate the validity of what someone else is asserting and how to draw logically appropriate conclusions themselves.
  1. Work with your kids on how to seek answers to faith questions online.
    Giving your kids research challenges and discussing their process of finding answers can lead to enormously valuable conversations that will benefit them for life.
  1. Teach your kids about religions and worldviews other than Christianity.
     …study and compare the actual beliefs. In addition to other religions, be sure to study the atheist worldview in-depth, given its significance today.
  1. Start today.

(Copyright©2016, pages 249 – 255)

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Welcome Little Children

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Welcoming children into the corporate worship service is such a huge blessing for children, parents, and the congregation as a whole. But we sometimes forget that the word “welcoming” is an active word—not a passive one. It is not merely acknowledging the presence of children in worship. Rather, it is seeking ways to intentionally connect them to the worship experience: singing, prayer, reading of Scripture, offering, preaching of the Word, etc. Writer and pastor’s wife Megan Hill has some great advice—a few, simple things that the church can do to welcome children.

I make no claim that the following suggestions are an exhaustive list of how to welcome children in local church worship. They are simply four things which have been a blessing to my family. These things also have the advantage of being both simple and applicable across church cultures.

  1. Greet children by name. Welcoming children to worship begins at the door to the church building. Here, after being apart for sometimes a whole week, the people of God rejoice to see one another again face to face. And because we are commanded to greet “all the brothers” (1 Thess. 5:26), we include children…
  2. Read and preach from the same Bible version every week. …When my church consistently uses a single version of the Bible, it makes it easier for my kids to read it, to memorize it, and to meditate on it.
  3. Sing from a hymnal or distribute printed words and music. Most kids love to sing. Of all the elements of corporate worship, singing is probably the easiest for them to participate in, the most obvious way for them to contribute meaningfully, and the best opportunity for them to feel a part of the congregation…Having printed copies of the psalms or hymns has helped my children learn the songs by heart and become confident in singing the praises God himself has ordained (Matt. 21:14–16)…
  4. Specifically mention children in prayer and preaching. …Specifically mentioning children in the sermon reminds them that the commands of Scripture are commands for them. What’s more, speaking directly to kids from the pulpit assures them that the offer of the gospel is an offer for them. I am so thankful for every pastor who tenderly says, “Children, here is your great hope! Look to Jesus, the only Savior of sinners!”

(“4 Ways to Welcome Children in Worship,” www.thegospelcoalition.org)

Just a note from my own personal experience with our own children and, now our 2- and 4-year-old grandchildren: Point #3, about singing from a hymnal or printed music sheets, is really helpful. If your church doesn’t do this, talk to your church leadership and see if you can find a way to have printed copies the words to the hymns and songs. Some churches provide these within the printed “Order of Worship.”

Also, if are coming to our National Conference but haven’t signed up for your seminars yet, consider these:

“Let the Children Come to Me” in Worship—David Michael
Like every human being, children were created for worship, and one of the strategies for raising a generation of worshippers is to include them in worship services of the church. Another strategy is to create a separate, more “child-friendly” worship experience for children until there is sufficient maturity and understanding to worship with the adults. In this seminar we consider a biblical perspective on this topic and some practical strategies for welcoming and involving children in the corporate worship services of the church.

Strategies for Engaging Children in the Worship Service—Sally Michael
This seminar will discuss the difficulties in involving children in the worship service and propose solutions to solve those difficulties. Practical suggestions will be given that parents can use to enfold their children in corporate worship, as well as strategies children’s ministry leaders can employ to train and encourage parents to have their children involved in the worship service.

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